Master Emotional Connection!
Challenge Result #1:
As couple you will know how to create deep connections in small but high quality ways that will build a huge emotional bank account of love and affection.
Challenge Result #2:
As a couple you will know how to intentionally support and validate each other, creating the safest place to talk together.
Challenge Results #3:
As a couple you will know how to maintain and grow your connection and continue in a cycle of good to great, never going back to disconnected disaster again.
Challenge Result #4:
As a couple you will know how to create and maintain a secure connection, all about anything and live The Intentional Life together.
Love is a Choice, Romance is an Event.
Unfortunately, many of us are confused about the nature of love and stop exploring on our journey together and find ourselves stranded, stuck in a mundane existence of day-in-day-out. After one year, seven years, or maybe after a decades of relationship together, we find ourselves wondering if we were meant to be together and what happened to the romance. We feel like roommates or business partners with kids:
“We don’t have interesting conversations and I’m not sure how to spark that. I don’t know how to get back to where we were when we first met.”
“I’ve been married for 15 years and my husband says he isn’t “in love” with me and feels we are roommates. How can we reconnect?”
“My wife and I express ourselves completely differently so we have a hard time understanding each other.”
“Since I don’t feel emotionally connected with him, I struggle to want to connect with him sexually.”
Signs of Weak Emotional Connection
Weak emotional connection comes from getting stuck on relationship obstacles, like:
Sinking in Quicksand: You're slowly sinking and desperately in need of attention from your partner. Instead, you feel invisible, lonely, and scared in your relationship. No matter what you try, it seems you just sink deeper and further away from your partner.
Never Ending Thunder Storm: Your partner is critical of you. You feel like nothing you do is ever right to them. It feels like the sun never comes out, and what you need right now to get by, is just a little light.
Blame Games: The tone of your relationship is a never ending blame game. Instead of repairing and moving forward you start arguing with each other about whose fault it was.
On Ice: Your sex life is practically frozen or, perhaps, completely non-existent. There's no emotional warmth in your relationship.
No Shelter in the Storm: You've got work stress, health issues, or other life stressors. You feel your partner doesn't care—about these problems, or even about you. You feel emotionally abandoned.
Traits of a Strong Emotional Connection
Strong emotional connection leads to the following experiences, on your journey together:
Best Friend: When something comes up, you know your partner's got your back. You're teammates, not antagonists, against any problems in your relationship.
More Sunshine: Sure, you have rainy days together, but you and your partner are affectionate, understanding, and can even laugh during conflict. This is because your relationship's built on strong emotional connection.
Rear Without Blame: When something goes wrong in your relationship, you focus on finding solutions; on repairing the problem; on getting back on the road to lasting love.
Cozy Fires and Snuggles:When you have sex, it's like cuddling near a fire with your lover. There's an emotional warmth that makes romance last through difficult times, during life stressors, and through major life changes.
A Safe Shelter: You feel intimately known by your partner and deeply loved. When together, it feels like home.
You can master this intentional small-steps-often approach and transform your emotional connection in just 30 days!
The 30-Day Emotional Connection Challenge
You may enter the challenge with lower connection, drifting without connection and purpose; but when you are done, you will end the challenge with deep connection-equiped to live the intentional life together!
Over these 30 days, I’m going to guide you though a step by step process in creating and cultivating a deeper emotional connection with scientifically proven tools.
Each week, you will get an several intentional instructions from me, with the following:
- Weekly video teaching to help you shape the proper mindset and beliefs you need to succeed and a step-by-step video instructions explaining how to improve the emotional connection in your relationship.
- A powerful relationship tool to emotionally, intimately, and authentically connect with your partner
- Several downloads (PDFs) you can print and keep to continue long after the class is over.
Couples can spend thousands of dollars on therapy and hundreds of hours, commutes and childcare. What I will show you in 30 days for only $47 will save you lots of time and money.
Imagine waking up everyday inspired that you are loved and appreciated, deeply known and secure in your most important relationships. Imagine being fulfilled by knowing exactly how to show love to those same people.
I love helping couples make their relationships great, from wherever they start.
I believe love is a verb by which we make strategic choices that are deeply rewarding and emotionally fulfilling.
I believe love is a skill. I believe anyone can learn this skill.
I teach people the skills for having deeply rewarding relationships with themselves and others.
This challenge will take you step-by-step into success. Over the next 30 days, you will have a closer, stronger, more fulfilling relationship!
Get started now!
We Accept The Challenge!Meet Your Guide:
Christian specializes in helping couples navigate their relationships. Christian has 20 years of experience guiding others through their journey. Married to Amber for 26 years, and having raised three daughters has uniquely prepared him for being a reflective guide and therapist with whom clients feel connected. Specifically trained and licensed in Marriage & Family Therapy, Gottman Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Christian combines his creative personality to bring clients lasting solutions.
He also has a no-bullshit, direct and proven approach.
